SAMAR – Birthing Story


We never formally introduced the LOVE of my Life. The Apple of my Eye, the front runner, the flea of my heart & the reason our lives became so beautiful and blessed. Drum Rolls Please – SAMAR…He is 19 months old & has recently graduated to a Toddler class aka Junior Pre-K. He is almost as good as a Minion at taking instructions, Zero percent naughty and 100 percent nice. It has been over an year but the reminiscing still continues. The day we had him of course was one of the special days of my life & looking back I realize how lucky I was that things moved safely and quickly.

Let’s back up.

I was 39 weeks due but no contractions but gestational diabetes & we decided to get labor induced as the baby was growing big. I took work off a day before & decided to spend it with elder baby (my husband) & get some quality “Just Us” time. The Braxton Hicks contractions had started since few weeks but still got dressed up & went out for Dinner. As I relished down dumplings one after another, my better half kept ruling out all the possible negative scenarios & planning contingency!

Below satiated & zen like me!

Later that evening we went to the hospital, got induced & all we were expected to do was WAIT. I wasn’t hoping a sudden labor but some meaningful contractions to know that the process had kicked off. Post supervision called my dad on the phone making them aware that baby didn’t seem anywhere close to being born. We agreed it was going to be a long night.

Throughout the pregnancy, I had a nightly 1:00 AM routine to listen to Brene Brown & Liz Gilbert on Audible. For some reasons their voices were soothing & discussions were relaxing to fall asleep. Towards the end of pregnancy, I used to listen to the sound of rain to fall asleep. And that day also I relied on these Apps as if my life was dependent on them…Until around 4:00 AM, I got up because I couldn’t get comfortable. Even my comfy position wouldn’t work, the pain was exponentially increasing. I didn’t wake up Mr. Significant Other and went to see the midwife who induced a second dose of labor. I started to think that may be something was happening as the nighttime contractions usually would subside when we went to bed. So I decided to start timing my contractions and they were approx 2 minutes apart & 30 seconds long. Usually it is 1 minute long when you start pushing so I was convinced that nothing major was happening.

At 6:00 AM the contractions were kinda strong and the baby was awake, moving and wanted food. I was told to fast after our dinner last night so we both were starving. I felt a lot of distress and called the midwife again, she told me to go to the labor room for examination & found out I was 2 cm dilated! However, there was still some time and midwife started prepping for the labor. Even if the dilation wasn’t adequate she wanted to start a timer to ensure that both of us are not introduced to any kind of trauma. They put a Doppler, started looking at the heart rate & the contractions. They took first reading & told me that a second reading was required. I thought everything was fine & wanted to step out of the room to get some air and may be sneak out to get some milk! I removed all the wires and got down from the bed when the obstetrician came and told me that they were taking me to an emergency C section! The baby’s heart rate was slowing during contractions more than what was considered safe. I picked up the phone & noticed that battery was at 2%, mustered up myself and dialed daddy-to-be saying “Come Fast”. He came rushing and I was taken to OR. We were freaked out as 1. We thought we still had time and 2. He was not allowed to come inside the OR as it was a major emergency.

They gave me regional Anastasia, draped sterile drapes, the nurses prepped up instruments. The doctor comforted me saying there will be multiple incisions to get to the baby, so hang on! I was numb in about 10 minutes but I could feel incision and next suctioning. The amniotic fluid was suctioned away to make more room in the uterus for the procedure. In next 5 minutes, I felt intense pressure and nausea, I was told by anesthetist that the Baby’s head is born! The OR had steel ceiling & everything was mirrored on it but I couldn’t see Baby’s head nor heard a voice. I had started to get paranoid and asked if the baby was a boy or girl? This was met with laughter & they said, “Not yet”. Within another few minutes, i heard the loveliest voice and I said Our Baby! The nurse put the wobbly screaming baby on my chest. He was so little, already suckling and his hair & cheeks were soft, beyond adorable. The midwives were mushing on my stomach removing the placenta, stitching the abdomen as I was trying to process what was happening, and in that moment I wished I could getup from the table & run to Daddy-to-be and show him look what we made. But that would have been inappropriate so I waited them to stitch me up. Around 10:45 AM I was out of the OR and the baby was happily sleeping on a warmer and everyone had huddled him.

It still baffles me that one night we went to bed as usual & the next day before we would have come back from work we had the baby delivered and our entire family dynamics changed. I consider us so lucky. Seven hours were short but they were long enough to complete our transition into official parenthood, these 7 hours had completely consumed my thoughts both since I got pregnant and since it happened.

The baby (who didn’t had a name at this point) was learning fast, eating like a champ & gaining weight. Had already had bath, visited pediatrician, went to get a to-go-order… not really but we are food people & eventually he will. He is already getting bigger & OMG the clock is ticking and time is flying so FAST. And in next 10 seconds he will be going out to the college & I will just die.

For now we just cuddle.

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Niagara Falls, NY


After switching two planes, I reached Buffalo, NY around 3 PM. It was a beautiful day. The Sun was shining, crisp air stirring the wind and it was my Birthday. I rushed through the baggage claim towards the Parking lot, eagerly waiting to meet the two little beautiful boys. My Nephews. There was hugging, smiling, pulling cheeks, cuddling, jibber jabbing, and thus we were heading to see all the worldliness of Buffalo, NY.img_1231We spent some time at the hotel & got dressed up to go to a Japanese Restaurant  called Kumo in Depew, NY. Indulged in Sushi, Sashimi and Saki. Since we had an early start, we had to cut short that night. The next morning was dewy, it had rained from last night. While the weather was foggy, we were determined to still make most of it. We ate nice hot breakfast, had multiple helpings of coffee, packed the essentials and started heading towards Niagara Falls.

 Niagara Falls consists of three Waterfalls – American, Horseshoe and Bridal Veil placed between New York, USA & Ontario, Canada. In reality, it takes one to cross a “Street Light” on the Rainbow Bridge to enter a Canadian territory and a valid passport.img_1264The Rainbow Bridge connects The American side (right) with The Canadian side (left).We reached a crowded Niagara State Park around noon. The Pedestrian bridge to Goat Island at Niagara River is below. This river spills over and transforms into The American Falls.IMG_1269.jpgThe State Park was a great place to unwind, relax and take a break before starting the tour.IMG_1286.jpgWe bought our tickets at Niagara Reservation State Park and headed through the Observation Deck towards “Maid Of The Mist” tour to see these great waterfalls up-close.IMG_1290.jpgThe American Falls are to the left and Horseshoe Falls reside at the centre.IMG_1316.jpgThe American Side wears “Blue” Ponchos unlike the “Red” ones from Canadian Side. We wore the ponchos and waited eagerly for our turns to get on the Commodious boat. The boat sails right in front of the falls, taking you through all the three falls. (In the backdrop, a Red Canadian boat is moving towards the Horseshoe falls as seen from the observation deck.)img_1298This ride lets you get really close to the Falls witnessing the power and strength of water as it roars down the rocks into the Niagara River. We knew that we were going to get intensely drenched but every water-drop was worth it. However, it limited our usage to photography.MaidofMist.jpgThe similar Maid of the Mist boat from Ontario, Canada crossed our way is seen across the Niagara river.We came back that evening to the state park to watch illumination by Niagara Falls. This beautiful view is available every dusk through midnight. Another major attraction here is Cave Of the Winds; not available at the Canadian side. This tour wasn’t there initially in our agenda but we decided to take it.In preparation, you get a Poncho (Yellow, this time!) and Water-Proof souvenir Shoes!IMG_1436.jpgCave Of the Winds is a cave behind Bridal Veil Falls but the access to this cave was closed due to some mysterious reasons that we couldn’t know. This tour is now available through wooden walkways built at the base of this fall. And you can stand right underneath this waterfall and get drenched to your heart’s content. IMG_1439.jpgBeing so close to the falls was incredible and I am so glad we did this. It’s crazy and scary and just fun. This place is scenic beyond imagination, did you ever walk through the Rainbows? I did! The mist rises so high into the air it creates clouds in the sky. When the sun hits the waves in the right way a rainbow forms from side to side.IMG_1441.jpgThis trip was an impressive experience, I am quite content that we spent ample of time to explore all the areas and experienced it thoroughly. I have heard people say that Canadian side is prettier than American but on the contrary, I think American side is more exotic as it isn’t commercialised with stuff like Ripley’s Believe It or Not and Turkey Leg Stalls! But I will have to see Canadian side to make a judgement.

Niagara is a great spot for Vacation: If you are considering a trip, here are some tips: I highly recommend staying close to the American Falls as to easily access the State Park. Be sure to visit Niagara Falls in the evening to witness night lights and fireworks. Take a trip to the Maid of the Mist and do not skip Cave Of  the Winds.

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Alexandria, Virginia


I wanted to write about the place I visited last Summer. It was around the same time this year, at the onset of Fall. Alexandria, in the East Coast of America, just minutes away from Washington, DC is usually like a Southern State: Warm and Humid but around this time of the year it was getting Colder. Since we were on a tight schedule, we could only visit Potomac River Front in the Old Town of Alexandria and skipped Mount Vernon.  

 We visited Torpedo Factory Art Centre on the way to Waterfront, if you are into art this is your place. It was initially a Naval Torpedo making center which later was converted into a art gallery. Now a hub to many live artists, studios and artwork. IMG_2180.jpgLike every other Old Town or a Historic Downtown, Alexandria had Compact & Leisurely paced Boutiques, Restaurants and Coffee Shops. The Sidewalks had interesting streetscapes and long narrow alleys that felt enough like walking in a European region. I personally felt it was a great walking city.

I usually wonder about the waterbodies in this country, its blue as if gallons of ink was dissolved in it. The Sky, radiant blue. Sharp! The Waterfront was absolutely Serene, Colourful and Graphic…if we Only had enough time, I would definitely have come here to sketch some art and paint.

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It appeared that Alexandria’s culinary scene varied from various Global Cuisines to Outdoor Cafe’s. Couple of blocks around Kings Street and near Waterfront offered various choices. 

We stopped by for few drinks and snacks at Mai Thai.

A fact find: Paris may be known as the most Romantic City in the world, but Virginia is for Lovers and Alexandria was just named the #1 Most Romantic City in the U.S. Even the DC elite came to Alexandria to impress a date—including President Obama! The president spent his anniversary with the first lady at Restaurant Eve and Valentine’s Day at Vermilion.

In my opinion, this was the 2nd city after Pigeon Forge, TN that was just spectacular and charming in its entirety. 

From here, soon we were headed straight to the airport to catch our respective flights only wishing we had some extra time to tour and learn the history of Alexandria.

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New York //Summer 2015


During my few days in New York this September, I went for a walk. It was a shorter one straight down the 41st Street and Broadway. I was trying to get something done but when I stepped out I forgot the purpose. The two miles of meaningless stroll in a beautiful Manhattan was all I needed that evening to restore. Sometimes, exploring a new city and picking up a coffee is restorative.  I was running late. We had decided to do a Gossip Girl Blast! Something that says, Serena and Blair spotted at the Empire! That meant, I still had several hours left to roam. Along the way, we debated if the tall building looking at us through the hotel window is The Empire State. We simply just denied.Between, West 33rd Street and 5th avenue stands The Empire State. We visited 86th floor and I would definitely say that until you see New York City from the top of the Empire State Building, you haven’t really seen it! The view of Manhattan including Central Park, Times Square, Brooklyn Bridge, Chrysler Building, The Statue of Liberty are breathtaking.

The Nostalgia kept coming from all the movie scenes that were shot here – An Affair To Remember, Sleepless in Seattle, Manhattan and many more. By the morning, I couldn’t help but accept the fact that New York had become my second love and as I looked out of the hotel window, I saw The Empire State staring at my face continuing to make me nostalgic.IMG_1551 The Sun was hot and the Yellow cabs were stirring the air. Everything in New York looked like a photograph. People on the streets were rushing looking around for action, love and the world famous architecture.  Soon, we had visited Garment District, Herald Square, Flatiron, Chelsea, West Village, Greenwich Village, NoHo (“North of Houston Street”) and One World Trade Tower.

The 9/11 Memorial was surrounded by white oak trees with two giant size human-made waterfalls at the center. The waterfalls signify “Reflecting Voids”, a reminder of the absence of the 9/11 victims.What if you were suddenly brought closer to an edge of absence? May be the architecture wanted us to take a moment and reflect on what must have happened that day. The waterfall walls were engraved with the names of deceased and flowers were placed on the placards.
As a tribute, throughout the month of September two vertical beams of lights emanate from Ground Zero to honor the World Trade Center Twin Towers. We were able to see these lights during our night-tour and throughout our stay.Few blocks away from 9/11, we dined at Steve’s Pizza, a rustic little pizzeria was exactly what we were looking for. A great slice of true New York style pizza. The crust, I imagine…when I hear people speak about NYC pizza!

Soon, we headed off to see rest of the financial district. It runs from Broadway to South Street in Lower Manhattan.  We visited American University of Antiqua, Federal Hall National Memorial, Newyork Stock Exchange, The Wall Street, The Charging Bull etc. Another remarkable place adjacent to the financial district is South Street Seaport in lower Manhattan. It is a beautiful historic district with cobblestone streets, ships parked at the Pier17, a nearby port and array of restaurants. Everything from here seemed to be at arm’s length: City Hall, The Brooklyn Bridge, and The Battery Park. Wish we could have stayed a little longer to see Pier 17 restaurants but it is true that you cannot have enough of New York in few days. Every thing here is picturesque & worth admiration and keeping up with it can be challenging.

I found this city addictive and uplifting. Like Tom Wolfe said, “One belongs to New York instantly, one belongs to it as much in five minutes as in five years”. More you explore it, you will get inspired even more.

PS: Saving some inspiration for later in the following blog. For now, officially the nostalgia has begun. I heart Newyork!

 

The Great Smoky Mountains, Tennessee 


  I recently traveled to the state of Tennessee with zero expectations and realized that life gives more when you are seeking nothing in return. It is said that Smoky Mountains are best during The Falls with its gorgeous colors and landscapes but honestly, the mountains were equally pleasant and welcoming during Spring.img_88242We rented Tennessee style cabins which had game tables, hot tubs, XBOX, air hockey and  everything and more. The best part..rocking chairs, hot breakfast with an amazing mountain view!  We spent some time visiting Gatlinburg, TN Located in the heart of Smokies. This resort-like town, nestled in the mountains of East Tennessee, is known for it’s beautiful scenery, great shopping and colorful history.

In here, I came across “Moonshine” an alcoholic in house produce. Apparently, during old times Tennessee started brewing it due to governments control of alcohol trade. So they decided to just keep on making their own alcohol, completely ignoring the federal tax.img_8794We visited one of the distilleries – “Sugarlands” a popular attraction where guests are invited to taste “Moonshine”, an authentic Sugarlands Shine. It was my first moonshine experience and we tried almost 9 different flavors. It was definately one of the highlights of our vacation and I would go back in a heartbeat! Of all the flavors, I picked up appallacian green apple.We also visited “Cades Cove” in Pigeon Forge,TN which is the most visited area of The Great Smoky Mountains National Park. This 6,800-acre valley is located about 31 miles away from Pigeon Forge and is known for its beautiful landscapes. If I wasn’t married, I would have chosen one of the fields here for sure.

The sounds of bubbling creeks are everywhere especially in spring. Keep your windows down and turn up your heater if it’s still cold….the sounds are as good as the views. Edit   I never really saw Horses Grazing in a Meadow! Did youI found myself standing in an awe as the light beamed down on us. I hoped that I could capture the view in such a way that it does justice. It was truly spiritual and a day I will not forget soon.img_8835

PS: OMG, how did I forget to mention the most delicious southern food I had apart from Cajun and Philly. Tennessee is pretty well known for their BBQ in which the meat is coated in a dry rub of assorted seasonings and spices and then either smoked or grilled in a BBQ Pit Smoker so that it moist and cooked thoroughly. I never had such BBQ EVER! And words are less to describe what we had in a highway restaurant in Sweetwater,TN called “Bradley’s Pit Bar-B-Q and Grill”. This is a must try if you ever plan to visit Smokey’s. 

 

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Las Vegas      


Recently, when my significant-other was asked to pickup a travel destination of his choice, he chose “The City That Never Sleeps”  a.k.a “Sin City”.  When we booked a long vacation, we thought who goes to Vegas for so many days but we were not only dazzled but charmed and overwhelmed by this city. 

So if you are planning to visit Vegas “Sooner or Later” here is my itinerary of must see places not so whimsical style but a mix of classy, with few adventurous drinks and with abundant fun.

First place we visited was “Fremont Street” also referred as “Old Vegas” located in the downtown. Filled with vintage casinos like “Golden Nugget” and “Binnions”, live shows every corner and concerts with cheesy performers. Every 15 minute walk, you will see someone dressed up as Elvis with a Guitar. The crowd was alcohol lubricated-carefree and from obnoxiously dressed to prom dressed people were found there. Among-st were awesome street performers and musicians. Do not forget to zip-line at the gigantic overhead projection screen (which is largest in the world).IMG_4648The drinks were cheaper, the pubs had more “alternative” and with lot of lights the street looked really old school; they even had an 80’s tribute band playing on the street. I felt that this place was sincere, authentic and true Vegas as compared to the other areas of this city.IMG_4613The next morning, we went to see “The Strip” at Las Vegas Boulevard. About 4.5 miles long, this street is filled with dramatic resorts, architectural representations of Paris, New York, Venice and Cairo in Casino Style. There are exotic entertainment shows, high-end brands, gondolas, drive-through wedding chapels and many more unique venues. Below is how it looked from “Stratosphere” where we stayed during our visit.
Typical must-see places included – Catching the dancing fountain show at “Bellagio”, the erupting volcano at “The Mirage”, Eiffel Tower Restaurant at “Paris”, Brooklyn Bridge and Hershey’s Chocolate Factory at “New York” and Egyptian pyramids at “The Luxor”. Of all the depictions, I loved the Italian themed “The Venetian“.  Despite it’s buzzy casinos, this hotel had interesting ambiance with artificial sky, canals with gondola rides, restaurants run by celebrity chefs and beautiful architecture.vegas_venetian_inside_tall_01We explored few restaurants on the strip and in downtown, some of our favorites remained: Thai Pepper Restaurant (Read My Review About It Here), Gordon Ramsay Burger at Planet Hollywood, Sambalatte Coffee Lounge & Espresso Bar, Martini BLVD. Cocktail Company. 

Brazilian Grille “Pampas” located in Planet Hollywood had above and beyond ambiance. It is situated at the end of brightly lit ally and serves authentic Brazilian food. A must try if you like exploring food.IMG_5075We also visited  “The Linq” which i felt is most hottest and trendiest spot in Vegas. It is unexpectedly quirky street with graffiti, artwork painted on brick walls, multiple music venues and a high roller Ferris wheel. Some of the places to check out are Ghiradelli Chocolate, Sprinkles cupcakes, American’s one of the favorite Yardhouse and Martini BLVD. Cocktail Company. IMG_5286-0Walking by “Martini BLVD. Cocktail Company” the sounds just attract you in. We entered into the doors (since we both live on mostly music, we had too). It was cozy and dim.The musicians play underneath a large multi bulb light fixture. We shared the space with Jonas Brother’s, Christina Perri and then I realized that next to us was sitting Colin O’Donoghue (Known for his role as Captain Killian Jones “Hook” on the Sci-fi series “Once Upon a Time”. I used to watch this tv-series for him!). One thing that I repent that night was taking a picture with him..I was so engrossed listening to the music and looking at my significant other that nothing else mattered. But nevertheless, I felt it was the classiest place to be in Vegas.BLVWe watched couple of shows at “The Variety Theater” at Planet Hollywood Casinos during our stay. I do recommend “The Ultimate Variety Show” and “Comedy Hypnosis” by Mark Savard was bit embarrassing at several occasions and we were glad that we didn’t volunteer for it. However, we really did want to watch “Zombie Burlesque” but all the shows were pre-booked.  

 

Las Vegas has shows and attractions for everybody be it sports, music, comedy, circus, or anything else you can think of. We got to meet Dr. Evil, had my first Jell-O shot experience, met show-girls and visited a celebrity chef restaurant.  Few things I wanted to do but opportunity didn’t persist or I couldn’t dare were taking thrill rides at “Stratosphere” (Though we stayed here but even after a lot of persuasion by Mr. Significant Other; I was freaked out). I would also love to visit “Buddy’s V” ristorante (a.k.a  TLC’s Cake Boss), watch “Absinthe” the show at Caesar’s Palace that was sold out. And probably, I will want to re-tie the knot in the blink of an eye at a Wedding Chapel.

I always thought that Vegas will be quite a tacky experience. Perhaps it was a bit but there were some beautiful casinos and over-the-top places that should be visited once a life-time. We accomplished making timeless and ever-lasting memories. And in the process, we learned that it is possible to have a sophisticated weekend here unlike what is shown in the movies. 

First IPSY Glam Bag


Finally my first IPSY arrived this March. And since it was the official kick off of Spring, the theme was “Floral Fantasy” and so was the bag. Few things I liked about IPSY over Birchbox (Read My 1st Birchbox Review): It comes in a bag that can be used as a wristlet unlike boxes. It has more make up. And finally if you have been following “Michelle Phan” on her you tube channel..you ought to get this once. I have learnt bigtime that skincare, haircare and workout regime are key ingredients in maintaining healthy and clear skin but after all-that hard work pays off the best part is cracking open a brand new MAC lipstick or feeling what a new tinted moisturizer will look like on our skin.

IPSY usually doesn’t include more than one skin or hair care product. So if you are someone who likes experimenting new makeup, this can’t get any better.

This is what I received in the March glam bag. 

1. LANEIGE – BB Cream and Cushion 2. Crown Brush – Oval Concealer Brush (C224) 3. NYX Cosmetics – Glam Shadow 4. Chella – Ivory Lace Highlighter 5. Coolway – Glow Oil Treatment.And today I received the April glam bag. This months theme “Beautifully Bohemian” speaks to my soul! I am extremely happy that for only $10 a month, I got a full-sized blush and 4 sample size products, including a facial serum, lip gloss, eye shadow, and a perfume!This is what I received in the April glam bag.

1. Hey Honey – Good Morning Honey Silk Facial Serum 2. Hikari Cosmetics – Blush 3. Starlooks – Satin Finish Lip Gloss4. Jor’el Parker – Femina Perfume 5. The Balm Cosmetics – NUDE Dude Eye Shadow.

Thanks IPSY  for all the wonderful items in my bag. My weekend would not have started any better.